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| Brooklyn Venues [message #601350] |
Mon, 01 May 2006 10:33  |
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Hi All:
Well, I've just become engaged and am looking for a place to have the reception in Brooklyn or downtown Manhattan. Help! I'm on a pretty tight budget and looking at a guest list of 100 to 125. We would love to do it in a restaurant or somewhere without so many variables, but I'm open. (The ceremony will be in a church in Brooklyn Heights). Any Brooklyn brides out there with suggestions? Oh--and probably this December or January, so no need for outdoor space. Any suggestions from you smart ladies would be much appreciated.
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #602113] |
Tue, 02 May 2006 19:23   |
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i just wrote a response with outdoor venues and then reread your post--- i am keeping the original in case others who are looking for venues in bklyn read this answer. bubby's is a great choice for you....have you already looked there?
we are looking at the tobacco warehouse, another RAW RAW RAW space, and one that is not booking for 2007, so if you want more info on that, let me know.
http://www.brooklynbridgepark.org/index.cfm?objectid=6A6CEA6 4-3048-7098-AFE502CA5965A435
it's our first choice but coming with many issues.
we looked at prospect park, and barbara was very nice and accomodating-
http://www.prospectpark.org/plan/main.cfm?target=home
but it just didn't trump the TW for us...yet.
there is the foundry which many people like in long island city i think. also the NYBG up in teh bronx.
our friend is getting married at Bubby's with great views- i think that's just bubbys.com
hope this helps! congratulations!
[Updated on: Tue, 02 May 2006 19:41] just B squared, since it's past 07
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #602119] |
Tue, 02 May 2006 19:37   |
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I don't know how tight your budget is, but I was blown away by the beautiful library at the Brooklyn Historical Society. They charge 5K just for the space, and they have to approve your caterer (or pull from their list). The price was too much for me, but if you can swing that price range, it's worth a look. You can't have dancing in the library, but you can in the lobby downstairs.
AND it's right in Brooklyn Heights.
ETD to add location note
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #602120] |
Tue, 02 May 2006 19:40   |
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great idea, CG--did they have a tight limit for people?
thanks so much-
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #602160] |
Tue, 02 May 2006 21:58   |
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thank you- we are 150...good luck!
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #602439] |
Wed, 03 May 2006 13:51   |
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the landmark on the park website is offline-- but darius is back! He will send a packet of info first and then take a meeting. (this is the nyc location- everything happens in one room though)
stage six - is the new place in the brooklyn navy yard. I got some prices: sat's are a minimum of 200 people at $208 a head. Sundays are 150 people at 163 a head. If you book for something before june 30, 2007, there are some discounts, but i dont' know them because we haven't gone to our meeting on saturday yet.
Anybody book there yet?
[Updated on: Mon, 15 May 2006 19:44] just B squared, since it's past 07
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #607017] |
Mon, 15 May 2006 19:46   |
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tobacco warehouse is not telling anyone whether the permits will be available until mid-late summer. Even then, the entire proposed 80 acre park could be under some form on construction or another for quite a while. as chris said "we are dealing with the city- you have seen how they have handled the world trade center site and how long that has taken"
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #608218] |
Thu, 18 May 2006 14:16   |
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that's sweet gigi- i think for a lot of us it's just that brooklyn has such limits (and you are right, especially with a larger party), and comes with pretty specific issues. NYC almost feels too big to tackle for me sometimes.
You gals on the nyc thread are great, don't worry that we feel left out! (you are also all at a pretty good clip ahead of a lot of us, which i really value in your advice)
I will post on sat about abigail kirsch's new place, stage six
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Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #608578] |
Fri, 19 May 2006 09:06   |
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TheHeights: thanks so much! we do love the view, and will look at that place too- are you having your ceremony there? We have spoken to a bunch of caterers before (when we thought the TW was a go) - i assume this space has no exclusive list...
did you look at the navy yard?
thanks again!
[Updated on: Fri, 19 May 2006 09:06] just B squared, since it's past 07
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #608784] |
Fri, 19 May 2006 14:43   |
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thanks for your feedback--we are all ABOUT BBQ- that was the plan for the warehouse when it was a contendaaa. your day sounds beautiful, i love the idea of people walking down through those pretty streets! how soon is your wedding?
I am starting to really get energy again- i went through a period of crazy planning, then got overwhelmed with all teh buzz around it, stopped short for 3 weeks and now have energy to tackle it all. i just go back and forth from "it's just a party, we could use that money for a down payment and maybe be able to stay in ny" to "but it's our wedding"...
Just spoke to galina- you were right- she is super friendly and the main thing with such a raw space is that availability...plus they are completely open in sept 2007 for right now.
[Updated on: Fri, 19 May 2006 15:11] just B squared, since it's past 07
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #609045] |
Sat, 20 May 2006 12:09   |
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the heights: congratulations on your place!!! that is HUGE, and you have your place and date etc...you are probably in better shape than you give yourself credit for. I will let you know how it goes with Galina
we just got back from. stage 6 - it's under construction, but they have great storyboards and pictures. It's a modern space- a sort of upscale old glamour feel...it will be a beautiful space, but not for our wedding. The prices are pretty reasonable if you get in before june 30th of 07, and even after that it's ok (but the limits on people can be rough- sat's you need 200, friday and sunday is a 150 and that's what we have anyway.) I can't remember the exact prices, but it's something like 133/head in april on a friday, and ranges to 154ish a head for sundays before june. after that, it's 163 or something for sundays and a little less for a friday.
Valerie is who you would talk to, and she is really nice. there is a LOT included in an abigail kirsch place- valet parking, amazing food, (even the wedding cakes were amazing looking) i will post more later- right now i am just discourged. it just wastn' for us, but the price/what's included and food were so ON that it's hard not to want to force it!
[Updated on: Wed, 24 May 2006 07:30] just B squared, since it's past 07
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #610604] |
Wed, 24 May 2006 07:31   |
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PRICES: (sorry for the double posting, but i know that there are people in the bklyn thread who are not in the thread for NYC and environs)
stage six:
valerie perez: 718-237-1919
(i only got prices for friday and sunday since we only have 150 people)
friday night in april: 133/person (and the last friday is still open)
sunday in april is 156- that is for the night or day, not twilight which is more
may and june: friday nights are 142 and sunday was 164 (i think twilight? i can't remember)
september of 07: friday night is 158 and sunday was 183 (again, can't remember if that was twilight)
also dont' forget to add 22% grat and 8.375% tax. also a $1,000 site fee. plus a $10/car lot fee. (there is valet, but the entire place charges that, not abigail. we would do a shuttle from the hotel to save on that.
the Lighthouse
peak months: may, june, august, september, october
friday nights: 175/person (peak month) 160 (off peak)
sunday night: same
sunday twilight: 195 (peak) 175 (off peak)
New York Botanical in the bronx:
718-220-0300
i only asked about peak months, because that's where my options fell:
friday night: 145
sunday day (11:30-5): 155
sunday twilight: somehting like 175- i can't read my writing
sunday night: 155
PHEW. hope that helps!
[Updated on: Wed, 24 May 2006 07:32] just B squared, since it's past 07
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #611368] |
Thu, 25 May 2006 12:03   |
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Here is the info on the Palm house at the Brooklyn Botanical Garden.
They are completely booked for Saturday nights through most of 2007. Friday nights too- but they start opening up august and then again in late September. they have days in june 2007, and probably many days other than that as well.
I spoke with denise on the phone who was nice, but we met with charles, who was rushed. Ask to meet with denise. Yes, I know they will book it regardless of how accommodating he is, but so will the other places we looked at and he was just not a good representation of the place, and further I wonder if it’s hard to get a hold of them once you are booked. (compare this with the navy yard who iws eager to make a good impression, you KNOW you will get the attention you need)
Benefits of night v. day: daytime you get only one option for the ceremony, in front of the weeping willows. Very pretty, but there are other places at night to choose from. Nights are 6pm on. Your guests cannot bring food and drink outside during the day, at night they can. During the day, the public is there, at night they are not.parkign fee during the day is $6/car, free at night.
Prices:
Evenings depending on the time of year the location starts at 2,250 and goes to 4k. Minimum guests are 150 sat but Friday Is 125. maximum is 300.
Per head cost: Sunday-Friday: 140-150 Saturday 150-160.
Daytime: site fee is 2k-2500. all days catering is 110-120 per head.
[Updated on: Sat, 27 May 2006 11:01] just B squared, since it's past 07
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #611510] |
Thu, 25 May 2006 15:13   |
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thanks so much linamouse-- i was getting so tired of losing our places or not being excited about a place. (the tobacco warehouse is a dead issue at this point (now chris doesn't even call me back to tell me the bad news!) and after that i just didn't fall in love with anywhere...) but this feels ALMOST right, we just have to make sure the rushed feeling doesn't translate into the whole process. i had my meltdown on washington avenue, just feeling like we were going to wind up somewhere that didn't have any meaning for us, cookie cutter...two months of planning stress came out at the poor man all at once! (he couldn't win, if he said our wedding woudl be perfect i woudl get mad; if he agreed with me i would tell him he wasn't being supportive!) so we will talk it out tonight, and i know all our pre-chosen vendors are available!
We can wait until sept 2007, so you are right, though i was sorry to hear tht all of june was booked...the gardens are just SO PRETTY right now!
thanks so much, it's nice to know that someone knows the space so well!
Plus, we made an appointment with the original Denise and over the phone i told them that our ONLY hesitation was charles, so i have a feeling they will be pretty accomodating (but is it a true representation? the pictures i have from this morning show the guide 12 ft ahead of MrBB walking through the gardens!)
[Updated on: Sat, 27 May 2006 11:00] just B squared, since it's past 07
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #611560] |
Thu, 25 May 2006 16:30   |
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thanks, i think you are right- i think with ALL this wedding stuff, things can look (to us) all the same, but to anyone outside they will see the unique pieces. It's like that old philosophical thought "have i ever had a thought that nobody has thought" etc...
thanks so much, once we set a date i will be really happy. and you are an expert- we all have to become experts in some way!
update: we set a date! and booked it! sept 14, 2007 (a friday- not our first choice but they didn't have any sat nights until 2008) and you were right, denise was SO good, and it wasn't a put on, she was truly truly amazing. we felt so much better after leaving, especially since we probably would have booked and hoped for hte best (after the rushed meeting with the other guy) but this made us feel 100% better.
[Updated on: Sat, 27 May 2006 11:00] just B squared, since it's past 07
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #614474] |
Fri, 02 June 2006 15:59   |
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there is a NYC and area 2007 thread:
with a growing list of vendors in teh second message on page one. I will keep updating it so that the list stays easy to find.
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #615178] |
Mon, 05 June 2006 14:38   |
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What does that mean, lost your deposit? That is crazy. They seem like good people, but I can understand your concern. I have had limited email returns from our potential officiant (this is the Brooklyn society for ethical culture, right?)
Post this question on the NY and environs thread in vendors-here I know those women will reply quickly. I think one of them is getting married at BAM. I feel awful for you, keep us posted. And maybe one lost check just means you have to keep on top of them…let us know what you decide…
[Updated on: Mon, 05 June 2006 14:42] just B squared, since it's past 07
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #615549] |
Tue, 06 June 2006 13:40   |
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The river café is BEAUTIFUL, but our party was too big for it. I don’t know the cost, though I am sure it is at least 150/head…when you get the information, can you post it? One thing you save on at the RC are decorations- the view and the flowers everywhere in there I bet are close to enough.
Also, make sure to check out the NY 2007 thread, there are more people there who may have looked at the RC. here
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #615558] |
Tue, 06 June 2006 13:57   |
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Hello-
Do you mean the entire wedding, including all of the vendors? Usually the place or the caterer tell you a per-head cost, but of course the entire wedding is so much more. I don’t know what you mean by average—I know that in NY it is difficult to find a full service caterer (one that brings the kitchen to a raw site) for less than 114/head- because we were trying that for a while. For reception sites that are all inclusive, it can help if you are willing to go on a Friday night or sat day…you saw the prices above for the places I have looked at. I think that if you want to do an outdoor thing, you can run the risk of it costing the same if not more than a wedding at an all inclusive place…you really have to do the math before you decide to do a seemingly less expensive option (when we were thinking of the tobacco warehouse, it would have been way more than the 150/head we are paying now at the palmhouse, b/c we would have had to rent lighting, kitchen, utensils, security, etc etc etc. and at first I never would have thought it would have been as much as it was turning into)
Bubby’s is a great place in bklyn, a friend of mine is getting married there and her costs are pretty reasonable.
I suggest browsing through the vendors threads (the NY and environs one is up to page 99 now, it’s great reading!) and then see how much you feel you know.
And congratulations, if you are new to this, that must mean you are recently engaged?!
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #615569] |
Tue, 06 June 2006 14:16   |
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the palmhouse has a 100 minimum on fridays and sundays i think...the RC is pretty expensive from what i have heard but if you only have 100, that might help!
[Updated on: Tue, 06 June 2006 14:54] just B squared, since it's past 07
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| Re: Brooklyn Venues [message #615613] |
Tue, 06 June 2006 15:28   |
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from my friend:
bubby's has been VERY responsive and great and i have no complaints (just happiness) with them so far!
i'm sorry you guys are going through this!
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